Today the severe sex ratio imbalance in China is putting 20 million Chinese men are single with no women to marry. By 2020, China will have 40 million young men without wives to marry in the age of marriage and childbirth. Seeking love is becoming a crucial competition among single Chinese men. Rather to say, there is no love in China, only a price tag.
It is a shame for a Chinese man not having a wife. Today in China, 100 baby girls are born at the same time, there are 117 boys born. Experts predict that after ten years, more than 40 million Chinese men reaching the marriage age won’t be able to find Chinese women to get married. This also means, in the time of free love, Chinese men have to put more effort to win her heart. But for Chinese losers, who has to be blamed?
From generation to generation, Chinese culture puts more favour on baby boys, plus China “one child policy”, which leads today’s China with more and more men and less and less women. Seeking love is becoming a cruel competition among single Chinese men. The measure of such competition is no longer of love, but the money.
To getting married, the standards required by an urban Chinese women, must be fulfilled by the China groom, flat and car paid off or at least half prices has been settled. The average price to get married in urban China, a single China men must have the brave to accumulate or earn half million ($80,000USD)
Seeking love is a sick game. That is why Chinese categorize themselves two types of single Chinese men, one “Bachelor of China”, with no money, desperately planning to get married, chasing girls every day, and the other is the “Being Singles”, with deep pocket, wish to get married, but chased by girls.
In NanJing of China, the survey of ordinary Chinese men and women to get married now and how much do you charge for wedding? The answer was released recently by the Chinese wedding industry NanJing investigation report: RMB 125,000 ($20,000USD) adding of buying a car and a House, the total price is RMB550, 000 ($87,000USD) for a wedding.